В I take issue with aligning oneself with an outside- looking- in perspective in how one writes about a marginalized group’s experience while also wanting to be seen as part of that group, but the main discussion should be about the experience and framing of meltdowns from an autistic perspective.—The. В Bingo Sheet meme has existed as a way for marginalized communities to catalog and make fun of the bad things they experience. В This usually takes the form of quoting common hurtful, invalidating or dismissive things they hear from other people. В For instance, there is American Racial Incident Bingo. В for the ways in which white people respond badly to instances of violence against people of color, and Fat Hatred Bingo. В for the ways the concern trolls and other people justify bias against fat people.
So, given this context, the autistic community was none too happy when an online disability publication called The Mighty published a Meltdown Bingo. В (Here’s a. В Do. Not. Link if you’re curious.)Meltdowns can be unpleasant for onlookers and loved ones, but first and foremost, they’re awful for the autistic people going through them. В But this meme. В reframes it so that the autistic person’s well- being is the secondary concern.
В I’m posting one here, as well as explanations for each square, so that people can have a better idea of what a meltdown actually is and why treating it as something that an autistic person does to the people around them is a problem. Image description: A black and white five- by- five square chart entitled “Meltdown Bingo: Autistic Edition.” See below for list of individual squares. Anxiety / Sensory / Trauma Triggers: В A meltdown is basically an anxiety attack on steroids. В Autistic people frequently have heightened sensory sensitivities to things like sound, touch or texture. В Things that are mildly annoying or even enjoyable to a lot of non- autistic people feel like an attack to us. В Many of us are also trauma survivors or have comorbid anxiety conditions, which being autistic only amplifies (because, contrary to common belief, we are not in fact mechanical beings made of pure logic). В When we experience a pretty severe trigger, or multiple triggers within a short amount of time, a meltdown can happen.
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Feeling Trapped: В This can overlap with the above, but it can also be a compounding factor. В For instance, if an autistic person is in an overstimulating environment which they’re not allowed or feel obligated not to leave, they may experience a meltdown that they otherwise would’ve been able to avoid by escaping the overwhelming situation. В This can also take place in a social context, where someone feels bombarded by criticism, too many demands, or just too much information and can’t figure out a way to disengage, leading to a meltdown.
Hunger Cycle: В Another thing that autistic people struggle with is executive functioning — basically, getting up, getting going and following through on tasks. В This extends to meeting basic needs like feeding oneself. В And when you can’t get up the wherewithall to feed yourself, it becomes a vicious cycle, because the hungrier you are, the less you can make a decision about what to go eat and act in that direction.
В And when you’re hungry (hangry, even), you’re more susceptible to all the other meltdown triggers. Failure: В Frustration is a major meltdown trigger for a lot of people, and frustration at oneself and one’s own limits is no exception.
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В This can trigger a meltdown all on its own, or can be a compounding factor once a meltdown’s already on the way and the person can’t find a way to prevent it (See also, Losing Control and Internalized Ableism). Disruption of Plan or Routines: В This is the other part of frustration — frustration at the situation, and of lacking control over it. В Many autistic people thrive on scripts, plans and routines to make it through the day, and tough situations in particular. В If something gets thrown off, especially in an already tense situation — for instance, if an autistic person’s flight is delayed and they’re missing their connection after having gone through the stress of dealing with a crowded security line — that little sense of security falls apart and all bets are off. В As you can see, a lot of meltdown triggers come back to anxiety in one way or another. Losing Control: В A lot of people seem to assume that autistic people are unaware of how they’re coming off.
В We’re not, especially as time goes on. В But self- consciousness is the opposite of helpful once the Meltdown Express has left the station. В It adds pressure (in this case to keep or regain composure), and any additional pressure on top of whatever prompted the meltdown in the first place is only going to prolong it. Shaking: В Meltdowns can make you feel physically tense. В For me, it feels like someone has pressed something freezing to the back of my neck, or laid something extremely cold over my shoulders. В If someone has a motor tic or a tendency to twitch, it might also become more noticeable during a meltdown. Can’t Move: В One.
В reaction to a meltdown can be an inability to get out of the overwhelming or anxiety- provoking situation. В This can be an executive functioning problem of getting the momentum to start moving. В However, it can also be a “play dead” type reaction, (often irrationally) hoping that if you can stay still and quiet, people won’t notice you and will leave you alone and give you the space you need to recover. Losing Speech: В Some autistic people never verbally speak, and some don’t type or use other forms of communication. В During a meltdown, autistic people who normally speak (or use nonspeaking forms of communication) may lose that ability. В This can be for reasons including but not limited to concepts no longer translating into language; В being unable to cut through their own thoughts or the noise in the surrounding area enough to speak; or being unable to focus on producing speech while trying to regain control over oneself in other ways. Flat(ter) Affect: В A lot of autistic people also have a flat affect — limited facial expressions and a flat, monotone voice — but not always on a consistent basis.
В In the middle of a meltdown, having an affect can be. В too damn hard, and (contrary to the kind of behavior people associate with meltdowns) an autistic person experiencing one can seem less expressive than usual. Startle Response: Anxiety. В and sensory assault can cause a meltdown, but meltdowns can also make them worse. В This is why you don’t want to touch an autistic person or invade their space without their consent during a meltdown if at all humanly possible. Run & Hide: В An alternative reaction to not being able to move during a meltdown is to flee. В This can be to avoid whatever trigger caused the meltdown, or to avoid people and be able to (eventually) calm down on one’s own terms without the pressure of people watching.
FREE SPACE: Nothing Is Beautiful & В Everything Hurts: Because that’s pretty much a summary of how a meltdown feels. Can’t Stop Crying: В This is what it sounds like. В Any (perceived) pressure, internal or external, to stop crying or otherwise appear outwardly calm will only make it last longer. Directionless Anger: В At its height, a meltdown can involve more than just anger at whatever caused it (though that’s certainly part of it). В It can be anger at everything that’s remotely like it. В Anger that such a thing is even possible or able to exist.
В Anger at your own helplessness. В Anger at everything and everyone. В Trying to hold that anger in is frustrating. В On the other hand, venting it and breaking something (or hurting someone) will result in regret and shame.
Self- Injury: В One of the ways that a person in a meltdown might try to vent or process these overwhelming feelings or sensations is to attack oneself. В A person can be self- injuring for a number of distinct but sometimes overlapping reasons. В It might be to drown out external input or one’s own thoughts with a more powerful sensation. В It might also be an attempt to punish oneself for either a failure that led to the meltdown or the meltdown itself.
В Self- injury isn’t necessarily the same as being suicidal, and restraining or otherwise using physical force on someone who’s self- injuring can do more harm than good. Internalized Ableism: In general, internalized ableism is taking in. В the negative ideas people have about disabled people and imposing. В them on oneself. В In this context, it’s closely tied to the feeling of losing control, and it can prolong a meltdown by adding intense feelings of shame, worthlessness and self- hatred to whatever emotions the person is already experiencing.
В For instance, a person might feel like they’re a burden on. В the people around them; that they’re melodramatic or oversensitive for having a meltdown over what other people consider a minor issue; or that they’re weak for not being able to stop the meltdown once it’s started. Sensory Overload: В This is similar, and often tied to, having a heightened startle response. В Leading up to a meltdown, each unpleasant sensory experience feels more painful and/or frustrating than the last. В Once someone’s in a meltdown, their ability to cope is essentially gone, so every additional bit of sensory bombardment’s going to hurt a lot more than it usually would. Fear of Punishment: В There are few emotional experiences more unpleasant than feeling like you’re going to be punished for something out of your control. В And for many autistic people, this is a very well- founded fear, as a lot of us have experienced anything from being condescended to to being physically abused or coerced after already having to go through a meltdown first.
В Like many other things on this list, this fear only makes the meltdown last longer.